{"id":1920,"date":"2016-04-08T19:47:22","date_gmt":"2016-04-08T11:47:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bridgesofhope.com.ph\/?p=1920"},"modified":"2016-04-08T19:47:22","modified_gmt":"2016-04-08T11:47:22","slug":"learning-important","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bridgesofhope.com.ph\/index.php\/learning-important\/","title":{"rendered":"Learning Important Life Skills in Recovery"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8220;You don&#8217;t\u00a0recover from an addiction by stopping using. You recover by creating a new life where it is easier to not use.&#8221;<\/h3>\n<p>In recovery, you will learn to create new habits, attitudes, and a way of life that will help you change your path from addiction to a better, healthier, and more positive life. Otherwise, you will stay in the same path and your addictions will eventually catch up with you again along the way.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/bridgesofhope.com.ph\/wp-content\/uploads\/life-skills-in-recovery.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1923\" src=\"https:\/\/bridgesofhope.com.ph\/wp-content\/uploads\/life-skills-in-recovery-300x217.png\" alt=\"life-skills-in-recovery\" width=\"300\" height=\"217\" srcset=\"http:\/\/bridgesofhope.com.ph\/wp-content\/uploads\/life-skills-in-recovery-300x217.png 300w, http:\/\/bridgesofhope.com.ph\/wp-content\/uploads\/life-skills-in-recovery.png 339w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>While you don&#8217;t have to completely change your life or reinvent yourself, there are a few things that you can change&#8211;and many things you should let go of. One of the things you should say goodbye to now is your old life of addiction and compulsion. Remember, the more you hold on to the things that you have been doing or thinking in the past, the harder it is for you to move on to your new life of recovery and sobriety.<\/p>\n<p>Here are some important life skills that can help you pave the way for a more successful, more long-term recovery:<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Avoid\u00a0high-risk situations.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Avoid situations wherein you feel the following: hunger, anger, loneliness, tiredness (HALT), which we have previously discussed in another <a href=\"https:\/\/bridgesofhope.com.ph\/index.php\/2016\/03\/28\/halt-understanding-common-triggers\/\" target=\"_blank\">post<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Another way of looking at it is to assess yourself at the end of the day, everyday, because this is the time when you are usually feeling the abovementioned feelings or situations.<\/p>\n<p>Additionally, you should also avoid the following:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>People\u00a0<\/strong>who use or remind you of using, as well as people that may serve as triggers for you to use.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Places\u00a0<\/strong>where you used to do drugs or alcohol, or those that remind you of them.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Things<\/strong> that remind you of using or drinking, or paraphernalia that can make you crave to use.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The first thing to avoid these high-risk situations is to be aware that you&#8217;re in those situations so you won&#8217;t be caught off-guard. Also, maintain a healthy diet, lots of rest, and an overall healthy lifestyle. Learn to <a href=\"https:\/\/bridgesofhope.com.ph\/index.php\/2016\/04\/01\/stress-management-techniques-to-keep-you-cool\/\" target=\"_blank\">manage stress<\/a> and have people you trust to turn to in case you need a support system or just a listening ear.<\/p>\n<h3>Remember, recovery is not one big change. It&#8217;s about lots of little changes you decide to make everyday.<\/h3>\n<p><strong>2. Learn to relax the right way.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>People often use drugs and alcohol to escape, unwind, relax, cope, and reward themselves. Once you are in recovery, you should learn other more positive alternatives to be able to do these things without resorting to drugs and alcohol.<\/p>\n<p>Another way is to learn to relax without having the need to resort to these substances. This skill is very crucial in your recovery. From writing on a journal, going for a walk, to finding a new hobby and being with a new set of friends, there are many positive and more productive ways to spend your time and relax.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Be honest&#8211;with yourself and with others.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>One of addiction&#8217;s most common symptoms is lying. You lie to get the drug or alcohol, you lie about using or drinking, you lie to cover up what you&#8217;ve been doing, you lie to hide the consequences of addiction, and overtime, this may have become second nature to you. Eventually, you become so good at lying that you lie to yourself too.<\/p>\n<p>Lying traps you deeper into your addiction and you can find yourself with barely a way out. With one lie, you have to cover up lying with more lies, and it goes on and on.<\/p>\n<p>Recovery requires you to be honest with other people and yourself. By being honest, you don&#8217;t give your addiction any room to hide as the shadows of lying disappear.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4.\u00a0<\/strong>\u00a0<strong>Take this chance to change your life.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>See your addiction as a chance to change. And, as with anything, changing from addiction to sobriety can be very difficult&#8211;but it will be all the more rewarding in the long run.<\/p>\n<p>When you were addicted, you were just sleepwalking through life, going through the motions just seeking your next fix. Now, you have the chance to experience life to the fullest and be more self-fulfilled.<\/p>\n<p>Once you become accustomed to your new life in recovery, you will find that it gets easier. The longer you are recovered, the lower your risk of relapse. So hang in there and keep your head high. Just remember these life skills in recovery and be open to learning more. You can do it.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">Do you want to turn your life around and escape your addiction for good? Do you want to learn these life skills in recovery and more? Let us help. Call or text us at our confidential helpline at 09175098826.<\/h3>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;You don&#8217;t\u00a0recover from an addiction by stopping using. 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