{"id":3662,"date":"2018-04-04T19:32:25","date_gmt":"2018-04-04T11:32:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bridgesofhope.com.ph\/?p=3662"},"modified":"2018-04-04T19:32:25","modified_gmt":"2018-04-04T11:32:25","slug":"dry-drunk-heres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bridgesofhope.com.ph\/index.php\/dry-drunk-heres\/","title":{"rendered":"Are You a Dry Drunk? Here&#8217;s What to Do"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If you have recently quit drinking or using drugs, then you probably are struggling. After all, being sober and leading a clean lifestyle after years of substance abuse isn&#8217;t a walk in the park.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you&#8217;ve been sober or are in recovery but still feel like you&#8217;re barely holding on, then you could be a dry drunk. Your family might feel like they&#8217;re walking on thin ice around you and as for you, you&#8217;re always angry and irritable.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3664\" src=\"https:\/\/bridgesofhope.com.ph\/wp-content\/uploads\/dry-drunk-syndrome.jpg\" alt=\"dry-drunk-syndrome\" width=\"642\" height=\"421\" srcset=\"http:\/\/bridgesofhope.com.ph\/wp-content\/uploads\/dry-drunk-syndrome.jpg 642w, http:\/\/bridgesofhope.com.ph\/wp-content\/uploads\/dry-drunk-syndrome-300x197.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 642px) 100vw, 642px\" \/><\/p>\n<h3>What is a dry drunk?<\/h3>\n<p>The term dry drunk is used for someone who is typically an addict, alcoholic, problem gambler or sex addict. They could have gone through other forms of substance and behavioral addiction and are now in recovery. However, they act and feel miserable.<\/p>\n<p>They are called dry drunk because even if they&#8217;re not using or indulging in destructive behaviors anymore, they still act like they do. Often, they act differently in public, but the exact opposite in private, especially at home. In public, they could be positive and productive, but then they take out their frustrations and misery on their family members.<\/p>\n<p>This dry drunk syndrome is more common than you think. However, with them in recovery, it makes you wonder why they are still miserable despite having turned their backs on addiction and leading a sober life.<\/p>\n<h3>Recovery is not a walk in the park<\/h3>\n<p>Addiction is like an iceberg. What is obvious to you is only a small part of the whole. So even if you see substance abuse as a problem, there&#8217;s more to it than that. What&#8217;s underneath those unhealthy behaviors is the biggest problem of all&#8211;and rehab facilities such as Bridges of Hope in the Philippines aim to address that.<\/p>\n<h3>How do you spot a dry drunk?<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Angry.\u00a0<\/strong>They seem to always be on edge and irritable.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Resentful.\u00a0<\/strong>Perhaps they never really wanted to quit or have different ideas about rehab and recovery. So they take it out against people who helped them.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Sarcasm.\u00a0<\/strong>If they&#8217;re always sarcastic, perhaps they have a hard time expressing their feelings in a healthy way.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Judgmental.\u00a0<\/strong>They could be hard to please and appease.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rigid.\u00a0<\/strong>Things are simplified in black and white, so it&#8217;s hard to reason with a dry drunk.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Extreme mood swings.\u00a0<\/strong>They can be cheerful one minute and depressed the next. They can be pleasant, but suddenly blow up in anger.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Hostility.\u00a0<\/strong>They appear to not have empathy and are hostile and antagonistic towards others.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Sense of entitlement.\u00a0<\/strong>They feel like the world owes them something because they gave up their addiction.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Self-pity.\u00a0<\/strong>They feel like victims.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Blame-tossing.\u00a0<\/strong>Everyone else is at fault except them. They don&#8217;t hold themselves accountable for their own choices and the events in their lives.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Fault-finding.\u00a0<\/strong>Nothing is ever good enough for them. They&#8217;ll focus on what&#8217;s wrong and dwell on it.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Bored and jaded.\u00a0<\/strong>They can be lethargic and nothing excites them anymore.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Glamorizing the past.\u00a0<\/strong>They fondly and proudly reminisce the things they have done while they were in active addiction.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>They can be sober but miserable, but that doesn&#8217;t mean they&#8217;re bad people. However, showing signs of dry drunk syndrome can mean that a relapse may well be underway, so it&#8217;s best to watch out for the signs mentioned above.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">For help with addiction or relapse, contact us at Bridges of Hope: 09175098826.<\/h3>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you have recently quit drinking or using drugs, then you probably are struggling. 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