{"id":3990,"date":"2018-09-25T00:17:11","date_gmt":"2018-09-24T16:17:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bridgesofhope.com.ph\/?p=3990"},"modified":"2020-12-07T18:34:11","modified_gmt":"2020-12-07T10:34:11","slug":"say-something-friends-addiction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/bridgesofhope.com.ph\/index.php\/say-something-friends-addiction\/","title":{"rendered":"Should You Say Something About Your Friend\u2019s Addiction?"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">Should you tell on your friend\u2019s addiction? Where do you draw the line between concern and meddling? Find out below.<\/h3>\n<p>Substance abuse can easily turn into substance addiction. In fact, there\u2019s a thin line that separates the two, making it hard to recognize, especially on someone you know and care about, like a friend. A friend\u2019s addiction can also be hard to face. There may be times when you wonder if you should mention about your friend\u2019s addiction or just keep mum about it.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<h3><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3991\" src=\"https:\/\/bridgesofhope.com.ph\/wp-content\/uploads\/say-something-friends-addiction.jpg\" alt=\"say something friend's addiction\" width=\"615\" height=\"399\" srcset=\"http:\/\/bridgesofhope.com.ph\/wp-content\/uploads\/say-something-friends-addiction.jpg 615w, http:\/\/bridgesofhope.com.ph\/wp-content\/uploads\/say-something-friends-addiction-300x195.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 615px) 100vw, 615px\" \/><\/h3>\n<h3>First Comes Concern<\/h3>\n<p>If you are concerned about your friend\u2019s drug or alcohol use, then it\u2019s more likely that there\u2019s really something wrong. If you feel like you should talk directly to them about it, you probably should, even if in passing or casually. However, it doesn\u2019t help if you\u2019re going to talk to other people because it may only make things worse or make it seem like you\u2019re spreading rumors. Either way, it won\u2019t be beneficial to your friend unless you talk to them directly about it.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3>Does it Cause Problems?<\/h3>\n<p>Having problems related to the substance use is also another indicator. Problems at home, at work or in school, with friends, with money, and with the law are big red flags.<\/p>\n<p>Always having to borrow money, getting sick, losing a job, fighting with friends or family members, sudden mood swings, unexplained aggression\u2026these are just some signs when substance abuse have crossed the line into addiction. This is especially true when, despite many efforts to cut down or stop have been futile.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3>Approaching Your Friend About Addiction<\/h3>\n<p>It can be quite difficult to strike up a conversation about your friend\u2019s addiction. That\u2019s why you should plan ahead and be careful throughout. First, know about addiction and the type that your friend has. Then, approach your friend calmly and reasonably. Make sure they\u2019re clean and sober. Avoid blame or preaching. Be honest and sincere about your concern. Understand that sliding into addiction is not intentional and addiction is not a weakness or character flaw.<\/p>\n<p>You have to be prepared to be faced with defiance, denial, aggression and even a fight. Expect resistance, but don\u2019t push your own ideas on them. Make sure you take time to also listen to what they have to say. Once you listen and get them to also listen to you, you may be able to convince them to seek treatment.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3>Where to Find Help<\/h3>\n<p>Substance abuse treatment or addiction rehabilitation is important if you want to help your friend overcome addiction. You can find help by contacting Bridges of Hope to provide safe, private, and professional addiction treatment. 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