We can learn lessons about habits. Why we do them, and what habits to form to lead to a more successful and fulfilling life. Read more.
From your morning coffee fix to your Saturday night club crawls, habits can say a lot about you. They also affect your life and relationships. Your habits can also impact your life, as good habits can pave the way for success, while bad ones, more commonly known as vices, can led you to ruin.
But how do habits form? Why do certain people have different habits than others, and what makes people form bad habits even if they’re destructive?
One thing about habits is that they start with a psychological pattern, also called a “habit loop.” First, you have a trigger that tells your brain to do the behavior. For example, when you wake up in the morning, your brain tells you to make coffee and drink it. Then, you develop it as part of a routine, which is the second step. The third is the reward. Once you give in to the trigger and do the routine, you get a reward, making you want to repeat the behavior regularly.
While people naturally form different kinds of habits, we are all still better off if we have less of certain habits, such as smoking or drinking, for example.
To help you put things in perspective when it comes to forming habits, take a look at these takeaways.
3 Things You Learn About Habits
1. Habits change your “normal.” Whatever you do on a regular basis is your “normal” because that’s what you’re used to. If you chance something, you become uncomfortable, our out of your element. However, if you keep doing that one uncomfortable or unfamiliar thing again and again, you will be used to it later on, and your “normal” changes.
2. Habits with multiple triggers are harder to control. Habits are linked to triggers. Whatever your trigger is, your habit follows. So, if you have one trigger, the activity soon follows. However, it’s not that simple all the time. There are many habits that have multiple triggers and these kinds of habits are harder to break. For example, you drink water after eating. This habit is triggered just by one thing, eating. However, when it comes to smoking, for example, the habit has many triggers such as stress, after eating, when there’s nothing to do, socializing, etc. The thing with habits is, it’s the negative habits that often have multiple triggers.
3. Learning to cultivate good habits is essential to better life. If you’re stuck with a habit that is hard to break, then it’s better if it’s a good habit. However, bad habits are often very disruptive and disruptive. These can even rob you of success and can derail your life. This is particularly true for vices, such as smoking, drinking, gambling, or using drugs. These vices can turn into addiction, which can lead to further ruin.
These three insights into habits are just a few. We’ll be sharing more in our future posts.
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